明天我並沒有要長一歲
我的生日又到了，真是快，謝謝老爸老媽把我帶到這個世界上來！明天要跟強納遜和王鯨魚去歡唱一下午，然後晚上在家和老朋友們Potluck，應該會很開心吧！覺得自己很幸福，身邊有那麼多愛我、關心我的人，謝謝大家！
長到這麼大，到底在別人眼中的我是怎樣的一個人呢？好多人喜歡我，可是為什麼呢？我到底哪裡好呢？有時都會想一覺醒來，自己會不會變成天津狗不理包子？每次這樣想，我的完美主義又會跑出來，怕自己不夠好，真是傷腦筋！
十月停飛一個月，明天過完生日，後天就要去香港五天嚕！
posted by Big Head @ 8:23 PM
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雖然不想長一歲，不過還是要祝妳小姑娘生日快樂呀！
Now you are officially 3-month old....
Why Big-Head is popular
Big-Head has been wondering why she is popular, especially among her female friends. I believe I know the basic reasons and these are perhaps same reasons why I choose her as my life partner. Unfortunately, these are very abstract feelings, but below is my best attempt for verbalizing.
Big-Head’s major strength is her robustness, as though life could barely leave any marks on her. Such marks have already distorted every other people we know at our ages, at personality, physique, or behavior. As such, people particularly enjoy the presence of a robust or pure entity, such as a baby, reminding them of their own long lost purity. However, this does not necessarily mean that Big-Head has not encountered as much challenge as other people (even though it might be true to some degree). The basic difference is one’s ability to deal with life’s blows, as natural evolution (which is a result of collective human conscience) favors such people. If one shows up her defeat in appearance, it is a sign of evolutionary unfitting and consequently making her less likable by others.
Big-Head’s robustness manifests itself in many aspects of her personality, such as her ability to quickly absorb (and forget) negative feelings, her flexibility in dealing with new situations (like my absence from home), and her capability to listen and sympathize other people’s inner feelings.
Finally, Big-Head and I make a good couple because we are both robust. However, there exists a big difference between us that makes her more popular. When I receive a blow, I never let it touch myself but instead convert it into a positive energy, which in turn propels my progress. This is one partial reason why I seem to be extremely self-driven, and it also makes some people consider me as aggressive. Big-Head, on the other hand, simply lets these blows pass through her like they never exist (to the degree that I sometimes have to remind her to covert some of the blows into positive energy).
It is not yet clear to me which way is better, but perhaps Big-Head’s method is an even higher form of evolutionary fitness.
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